there is nothing showing under unsold items, the item is showing in sold items but the but i advised TM yesterday that the buyer hadn't make contact, so applied for refund which is NIL - maybe that is the problem? but it is showing under your past activities see snip below as offer sent to bidders and watchers, but i can't withdraw the offer?

Hi thanks there is no "withdraw offer" button on either the desk top or app platform that says withdraw offer so i am not sure the offer went through, Cos i advised TM that the sale fell through and then it said refund applied which was $0 as i listed on free dollar reserve the weekend before last, then it had the option to offer to bidders and watches so i selected that option entered in my price and though it had been done, but maybe not? how can i check an offer has been sent as it looks like it maybe didnt' work?