ah thank you, I think I have clicked desktop site before and everything is seemingly the same, but will give it another go with this particular problem in mind  

yes, but I did have feedback from at least 4 of them I checked, but my items I won page doesnt say this anymore, it used to, and it still did on a couple of won auctions  

I won an auction on the 2nd August, sent address via TM, to get postage costs, nothing from seller except the TM generated payment details email. Emailed seller on the 3rd, again on the 4th, placed blue feedback on the 5th asking to have my email replied to please so I can complete the trade. How long do I wait before reporting that the trade wasnt completed and give up? Seller has 3000 feedback and only 13 negatives, maybe something has happened to them? I dunno, sort've frustrating. and Yes I have of course checked spam folders. I wanted it sorted as I'm going away shortly for a few days ...