Thanks again Lucy- I received the  listing details from you via email and was no a be to contact the seller! Hopefully he will attempt to solve the issue quickly..  

...I do not have the Emails anymore, that is my problem...I just trusted the seller about the long delivery times- and as I do not have any contact details from the seller I can not even go to the disputes tribunal. Thus I was hoping if TradeMe could look into my older history so that at least I can get the sellers details! What a mess- that is what you get when you trust people it seems...the lights were not cheap either..