Yes was just thinking the same last night. Also - is the watcher someone who has been watching the thing for months, or a new interested buyer? We don't know. Some 'community'

Yeah, cheers - i had that chat with them a week ago. All was well until today when it seems to have reverted back. Have sent a new message.

Thanks - they've gone and put me on 'in-trade' again the buggers!

I think, because I orginally listed this on the 'old' platform, it just went ahead and took the success fee like in the old days. There are two trade mes it seems,  running alongside each other in this frustrating world. i jsut went ahead and requested refund as per the old ways and it was instantly granted. Will I have to do this each time and old listing sells, I wonder.

I offer many things every week, let's say i offer 50 things that go unsold - i am lucky if 1 of those people actually declines it! I only offer for one day now, as I never believe I'm going to get a response - unless they buy if they're really keen. Some people will watch things for ten years if you let them. They might need glasses.

Thanks! I really think it's the buyers not reading it properly and chosing the free option, thinking it's free shipping   It's happened several times appreciate your help!