OK, Lucy thanks I'll do that. But I prefer 'emails' because it's getting more privacy details.

Hi Lucy, thanks for the reply. How about the buyer is NOT agree for the decision? Can I still do that?! Please look at my message before I've got some reason...

I'm so sorry, again !!! I thought you are from one of trade me staff because you're so helpful :) Thanks for more information, I should follow your advice.

Oh, I'm sorry! I've found your message just right now :) Thank you so much for your 'very helpful' advice, I really appreciate. I've spent so much times for the buyer's inquiries already, I feel this conversation for ever... If I couldn't answer the question straight away the mails keep coming... :( I think that she would be keep contact me in the future, too.. I've already told the buyer I've got enough, I'd like to CANCEL the trade. But... she is still want it. :( I feel NOT safe the buyer so... Could you please CANCEL the trade? Also refund the success fee please? Thank you so...

Also, I haven't sent my payment details to the buyer yet, so NO payment at this stage.