Unfortunately the seller is now accusing me of ulterior motives for wanting a damaged bangle instead of sending my bank details for a refund. The bangle is an older style and had dents that was mentioned in the Auction so i was well aware it wasn't perfect which is why i found her response of she will not send a damaged bangle and her bangle her decision comment unwarranted. I think now its become a morals situation for me. I was grateful for the first email letting me know about the further damage but now it feels like gaslighting and projection. I do realize going through with the refund ...