I sold am item nearly 3 weeks ago, the person buying was in hospital at the time... So needed to pick up a few days later... Which I said was fine...Didn't pick up... Has not paid. I have received multiple emails, texts, phone calls, but still has not picked up. Or set a date. The buyer thinks I am being unfair as I didn't put in my listing that I was moving house....I didn't as I didn't think it would take this long! Has said he doesn't want 'a feedback war' Am I being unreasonable for wanting payment and pick up?! Why should I get bad feedback for that?!