We sold an item recently and stated quite clearly prior to the auction that the money ( we are talking around $50  as it transpired ) would need to be put in our account -  bank numbers given to the buyer now 5 days ago - before the item could be picked up. Now suddenly it seems ...'incredibly dodgy'... to him that we will, now not advance the process until he accepts the terms we stipulated at the beginning of this 'episode'. We do not wish to prolong this process at all, but usually when you engage in an auction process, you accept all relevant terms as stated, when you take part, surely?...