is it a couple of dollars for ie: rural address for the company moving the package or is it over the top asking amount?  

Frans  - If I am reading that correctly you brought the second purchase outside of trademe  - so you did a private sale direct with them, not much TM can do if its done outside of TM, going forward ask them to list the amount you want to buy so its all done via TM and if paid via ping can be disputed within TM.

yes agree with Callum, that is not ok behavior, do not agree to the return of fees for the seller. I think they may need to have a read up on how to sell on TM 

Lee & Christine - you haven't said if the seller is a drop shipper or not, if you go back the auction you will see the noted information and shipping terms. its never ok to be abused any anyone, but there seems to be a bit of information missing  - did you email them trying to get a refund? if the action says nothing about coming from another country etc then 100% report it but if it does say its coming from China and you missed that when buying the watch then the seller has listed correctly 

does it say anywhere on the auction that its being shipped from China or the shipping options a couple of weeks and not days?

We had this once a couple of years ago, we only sell but brought something and the address was this random address in the south island that had no house on google maps, we have never been located in the south island and all they were able to tell us was change our password and were not able to explain why we had this random address listed on our account.

Helen, that is not your problem to chase a refund its the sellers problem, they need to refund you and then they need to take it up with post haste - and you should remove your address details as this is just a community forum :)

if you put your question into google you will get a few answers (depending on what type of phone) then just click the one that you have and it will help you upload photos

if you are making a listing, just add photos and it will take you to your photos in your phone

or its been delivered to the incorrect address (which is what I was thinking may have happened) ?